Men Secretly Test Women By Doing This (Don’t Fail It) Counterintuitive but true: men secretly test women not to play games, but to feel safe choosing a partner. If you’ve ever wondered why he shares a small embarrassing story, goes quiet in conflict, or casually mentions another woman, this episode unpacks what he’s really checking for and how to pass those moments without pretending to be someone you’re not. The heart of this video is dating psychology for women who want clarity over guesswork.